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Sex Chevron. About 30 percent of women report pain during vaginal intercourse, according to a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine which surveyed a subsample of 1, women and men ages 18 and older online.

Awareness of painful vaginal sex—sometimes lumped under the term Female Sexual Dysfunction FSD —has grown as more women talk about their experiences and more medical professionals start to listen. Many conditions are associated with FSD, including vulvodynia chronic vulva painvestibulodynia chronic pain around the opening of the vaginaand vaginismus cramping and tightness around the opening of the vagina.

But they all have one thing in common: vaginal or vulval pain that can make penetrative sex anywhere from mildly uncomfortable to physically impossible. However, you can absolutely still have sex, which we'll get to in a minute. There's no reason to suffer in silence, even if it seems awkward or embarrassing or scary.

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Your gynecologist has heard it all and can help or they can refer you to someone who can. The International Pelvic Pain Society has great resources for finding a d health care provider who specializes in genital pain. This kind of pain can affect anyone—regardless of sexual orientation or relationship status—but it can be particularly difficult for someone who mostly engages in penetrative sex with their partner.

The important thing to remember is that you have options. Hell, it doesn't even need to include it. And for a lot of people, it doesn't. Obviously, if P-in-V sex is what you and your partner are used to, it can be intimidating to consider redefining what sex means to you. But above all, sex should be pleasurable.

But sex can include or not include whatever two consensual people decide on: oral sex, genital massage, mutual masturbation, whatever you're into. That might sound like a lot of prep work, but it's really about making sure you're in the right mindset, that you're relaxed, and that you're giving your body time to warm up. Heather S. Howard, Ph. She tells SELF that stretching and massaging, including massaging your vaginal muscles, is especially helpful for women with muscle tightness. Starting with nonsexual touch is key, as Elizabeth Akincilar-Rummer, M. Inserting a cool or warm stainless steel dilator or a homemade version created with water and a popsicle mold can also help reduce pain, Howard says.

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Women can tailor the size and shape to whatever is comfortable. If a wand or dilator is painful, however, a cool cloth or warm bath can feel soothing instead. Again, do what feels good to you and doesn't cause pain. Several studies have shown that arousal may increase your threshold for pain tolerance not to mention it makes sex more enjoyable. So don't skimp on whatever step is most arousing for you.

That might mean some solo stimulation, playing sexy music, dressing up, reading an erotic story, watching porn, etc. And of course, don't forget lubrication. Lube is the first line of defense when sex hurts. Water-based lubricant is typically the safest for sensitive skin. It's also the easiest to clean and won't stain your clothes or sheets. Extra lubrication will make the vagina less prone to irritation, infections, and skin tears, according to Howard.

But some people may also be irritated by the ingredients in lubeso if you need a recommendation, ask your gynecologist. Women with pain often know what feels bad. I ask them to develop a tolerance for pleasure. To explore what feels good, partners can try an exercise where they rate touch. They set a timer for 5 or 10 minutes and ask their partner to touch them in different ways on different parts of their body.

Sex partners can experiment with location, pressure, and touch type using their fingertips, nails, breath, etc. Another option is experimenting with different Adult wants real sex Burns. Think tickling, wax dripping, spanking, and flogging.

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Or if they prefer lighter touch, feathers, fingers, hair, or fabric on skin are good options. Some women with chronic pain may actually find it empowering to play with intense sensations like hot wax and eroticize them in a way that gives them control, according to Howard. Masturbating together can also be an empowering way for you to show a partner how you like to be touched.

And it can involve the entire body, not just genitals, Akincilar-Rummer says. For voyeurs and exhibitionists, it can be fun for one person to masturbate while the other person watches. Or, for a more intimate experience, partners can hold and kiss each other while they masturbate.

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It feels intimate while still allowing control over genital sensations. It's worth noting that the majority of women need direct clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, Maureen Whelihan, M. Stimulating the clit is often the most direct route to arousal and climax and requires no penetration. For that reason, vibrators may be right for some women and wrong for others. I just tell them to be cautious. For women with pain from a different source, like muscle tightness, vibrators may actually help them become less sensitive to pain. Sex and relationship coach Charlie Glickman, Ph.

Above all else, remember that sexual play should be fun, pleasurable, and consensual—but it doesn't need to be penetrative. There's no need to do anything that makes you uncomfortable physically or emotionally or worsens your genital pain.

SELF does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Any information published on this website or by this brand is not intended as a substitute for medical advice, and you should not take any action before consulting with a healthcare professional. Sex Love Chevron Sex Chevron. First and most important, if you are experiencing any type of genital pain, talk to your doctor. Sex does not have to revolve around penetration.

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To minimize pain, give yourself time to prepare physically and mentally for sex. Now it's time figure out what feels good. If clitoral stimulation doesn't hurt, feel free to just stick with that. Topics sexual health vaginal health Chronic Pain Vulvodynia vaginismus. Delivered weekly. e-mail address. Will be used in accordance with our Privacy Policy.

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What Women Need to Know About Pain During Sex